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Do You Need Couples Counseling?
Are you in need of couples counseling? How would you even know whether you are or not? Here are some questions you can ask yourself to...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 30, 20142 min read


New Book: "It’s Not Fair"
The latest in my children’s book series is now available, dealing with the favorite childhood refrain, “it’s not fair!” No doubt this...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 22, 20141 min read


How to Argue with Your Spouse Without Solving Anything
An article I wrote about spousal disagreements has been posted on wellness.com: https://www.wellness.com/blog/13270621/how-to-argue-with-...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 19, 20141 min read
Can I Make a Suggestion?
This is an important question to ask… if you’re planning on listening to the answer. #marriage #relationships

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 13, 20141 min read


How to Be Married to a Woman
The sequel to my highly popular “How to Be Married to a Man:” How to Be Married to a Woman I will break down the essence into a triplet...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 8, 20146 min read


Getting Your Kids to Eat Their Dinner
Here is another column from the BJH in which I answer the classic question: How do I get my kids to eat their dinner??? Dear BJH, My kids...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Nov 1, 20142 min read
A Dog Named Depression
This short video offers a fantastic perspective on what it’s like to be depressed. If you think you might have depression, check this...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Oct 25, 20141 min read


New Article in the Baltimore Jewish Home
One of the kinds of issues I am frequently called upon to help with involves relationships among parents/in-laws/grandparents. Here is a...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Oct 18, 20141 min read


Love after Adultery
It is commonly thought that adultery is a certain death blow to a marriage. After all, what could possibly do more injury to a...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Oct 5, 20142 min read


Supporting Others
http://www.aish.com/sp/so/99754929.html #community #relationships

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 23, 20141 min read


Positive parenting won’t make up for yelling, insulting
I thought this was a powerful article about effect we as parents have on our children. Check it out: Even when the same or another...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 18, 20141 min read
It’s Not You, It’s Me
This is not about breaking up, it’s about making up (sort of). A novel way to interpret a classically overused line. #marriage...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 9, 20141 min read
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