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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Jun 15
3 min

COVID-19: A Chinuch Opportunity

Even the coronavirus has silver linings. Here's an opportunity not to miss.

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What should I do if I catch my husband watching pornography?

Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Jun 1
8 min

What should I do if I catch my husband watching pornography?

You may be thinking you don’t know this person who you thought you knew and trusted. Let's take a look at what you can do about it.

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Apr 2
3 min

Pesach Lessons of the Coronavirus

A tremendous opportunity is waiting in this year's Pesach. Don't let it pass you by.

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Mar 27
4 min

The Jewish Response to COVID-19

Much has already been said about how the Jewish people should be responding to this global calamity. What is the message?

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The Overlap of John Gottman’s Research on Marriage with Torah ideas

Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Mar 18, 2019
3 min

The Overlap of John Gottman’s Research on Marriage with Torah ideas

John Gottman is an interesting fellow. The son of an Orthodox rabbi, he is an American psychologist who could be said to be the top dog i...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Jan 22, 2019
2 min

Finding a Frum Therapist Online

When a person searches for “Orthodox Jewish therapist online” or “frum therapist online,” what are they looking for?

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Freedom for Our Children and Our Children’s Children

Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Mar 29, 2018
3 min

Freedom for Our Children and Our Children’s Children

“If the Holy One, blessed be He, had not taken our ancestors from Egypt, behold we and our children and our children’s children would [al...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Jan 21, 2018
3 min

The Five Love Languages and G-d

There is a parable of a king who sent two of his servants to fetch him a drink of water. The first servant ran out to the royal grounds ...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Nov 28, 2017
3 min

Families With Special Needs Children Need Maps

Guest post by Dr. Judith Greenberg If you are a parent of a special needs child, you may feel like you need some help but may not be sur...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Aug 7, 2017
4 min

Does Your Therapist Need to Be Frum?

How important is it for you as an observant Jewish person to seek counseling from an observant Jewish therapist? The truth is that while ...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Jun 27, 2017
1 min

Your Kid’s End-of-Year Recital

Here’s another post from me on Kveller.com which I wrote after reflecting on my kindergartener’s brilliantly produced end-of-year product...

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Rabbi Raffi Bilek

Feb 2, 2017
1 min

When Your Spouse Has a Mental Illness

#marriage #mentalhealth #relationships

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