Have you ever been in a conversation where one partner starts complaining, and the other one comes up with a brilliant solution – only to...

Note: this post was originally posted AFTER the one above it in the blog. It makes more sense that way, but somehow got messed up and had...

A very important note about those little hurts we all experience from time to time. #marriage #relationships

This is actually not about pregnancy, but I thought it was a catchy title to use.  This is about the expectations we have of our...

Here’s a useful suggestion for how to handle those high-intensity moments in a more productive way. #marriage #relationships

Another handy tip for making relationships work.  Check it out. #marriage #relationships

This tip is a winner. One of my favorites.  I know that some people disagree with this perspective, but I think it’s pretty useful.  Feel...

I found this poem/video very moving. It speaks volumes about the lasting effects that our relationships with others can have....

You know those times when your significant other does something particularly irritating?  And you point it out, and you are clearly...

No doubt you are now an expert at “I” statements, based on my last video.  Now take it to the next level with this corollary from your...

I know this is a very important topic to many of you (most especially the women), so I recommend you pick up the latest edition of Binah...

Here’s a timely article that I liked about the parshas discussing the construction of the Beis HaMikdash.  It’s got a number of...

This may be review for some, but it’s a great basic communication tool.  Don’t leave home without it. It’s also an important starting...

I’m the kind of guy who likes to be witty, especially in a group of friends. Me and my guy friends trade zingers all the time and we all...

Do you like cookies?  Here’s a video for you. #marriage #relationships

Dear Readers, I am pleased to announce the launch of my new YouTube channel, on which I will be posting a video series of my favorite...

The gun control debate that is coming back out of hibernation as a result of last week’s tragedy is an interesting case in point from the...

An interesting point I have recently been reminded of emphatically while working with couples: the points of dispute brought into the...

By Raffi Bilek| Nov 1st, 2012 Originally Posted at OU.org **********************************************************************...