I recently finished reading Miss America by Day, by Marilyn Van Derbur. This is by far the best book I have read as far as understanding what a victim of sexual abuse actually goes through, what the trauma is like. There is also lots of useful information, tips, advice, and other great material, but the best aspect of the book is the way she makes the trauma real to all of us. I recommend it to anyone who wants to understand the issue of child sexual abuse better.