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How to Be Married to a Man – Revealed
Some months ago, you may recall that I posted about the publication of an article of mine in Binah Magazine. Now that the time limit...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Oct 9, 20136 min read
A Marriage Counseling Take on Mistakes – Take II
The next logical step in dealing with each others’ mistakes: #marriage #relationships

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Oct 2, 20131 min read
Shiur on Shmini Atzeres – Thursday at 5
If you’re going to be in my neck of the woods (that would be Passaic) over Shmini Atzeres and Simchas Torah, I’m going to be giving a...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 24, 20131 min read


Real Teshuva
I saw this just before Yom Kippur. It blew me away. I hope it becomes a trend. #childsexualabuse #sexualabuse

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 17, 20131 min read
A Marriage Counseling Take on Mistakes
Okay, but what if your significant other is actually really truly wrong? What if they just messed up? THEN what? #marriage #relationships

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Sep 8, 20131 min read


Advantages and Disadvantages of Online Counseling and In-person Counseling
Here’s an article posted by a great organization called Thriveworks about the relative advantages and disadvantages of online counseling....

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Aug 28, 20131 min read
Couples Counseling and the Kitchen Sink
A common problem I deal with when doing marriage counseling is what we in the business call “kitchen sinking.” It’s got little to do with...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Aug 22, 20131 min read


Why Do Orthodox Communities Still Cover Up Sexual Abuse?
I didn’t think the book would get this much publicity, but I knew that I would get a lot of hate mail. When people do lash out at me, the...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Aug 13, 20131 min read
Solving the Problem-Solving Problem
Okay, so you get it. You don’t always have to solve the problem! But don’t you sometimes have to solve the problem? How do you know...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Aug 5, 20131 min read
Some Problems Don’t Need Solving
Have you ever been in a conversation where one partner starts complaining, and the other one comes up with a brilliant solution – only to...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Aug 5, 20131 min read
Then What IS it about?
Note: this post was originally posted AFTER the one above it in the blog. It makes more sense that way, but somehow got messed up and had...

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Jul 23, 20131 min read
Getting Hurt in a Relationship
A very important note about those little hurts we all experience from time to time. #marriage #relationships

Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Jul 7, 20131 min read
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