Rabbi Raffi Bilek
Advantages and Disadvantages of Online Counseling and In-person Counseling
Here’s an article posted by a great organization called Thriveworks about the relative advantages and disadvantages of online counseling....
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Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Aug 22, 2013
- 1 min
Couples Counseling and the Kitchen Sink
A common problem I deal with when doing marriage counseling is what we in the business call “kitchen sinking.” It’s got little to do with...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Aug 13, 2013
- 1 min
Why Do Orthodox Communities Still Cover Up Sexual Abuse?
I didn’t think the book would get this much publicity, but I knew that I would get a lot of hate mail. When people do lash out at me, the...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Aug 5, 2013
- 1 min
Solving the Problem-Solving Problem
Okay, so you get it. You don’t always have to solve the problem! But don’t you sometimes have to solve the problem? How do you know...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Aug 5, 2013
- 1 min
Some Problems Don’t Need Solving
Have you ever been in a conversation where one partner starts complaining, and the other one comes up with a brilliant solution – only to...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jul 23, 2013
- 1 min
Then What IS it about?
Note: this post was originally posted AFTER the one above it in the blog. It makes more sense that way, but somehow got messed up and had...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jul 7, 2013
- 1 min
Getting Hurt in a Relationship
A very important note about those little hurts we all experience from time to time. #marriage #relationships
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jun 29, 2013
- 1 min
Friendly Message to Camp Summer Staff
A hard-hitting but vital message. http://youtube.googleapis.com/v/WNCn38J49IM&source=uds #childsexualabuse #sexualabuse
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jun 24, 2013
- 1 min
Still Can’t Find It
Shortly after I posted my last video on expectations within a relationship, my favorite comic strip, Doghouse Diaries, put out the...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jun 19, 2013
- 1 min
The Consequences of Rabbinic Leadership Failing to Deal Properly with Abuse
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2013/06/missing-boat-consequences-of-rabbinic.html #childsexualabuse #community #sexualabuse
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jun 13, 2013
- 1 min
What to Expect When You’re Expecting
This is actually not about pregnancy, but I thought it was a catchy title to use. This is about the expectations we have of our...
Rabbi Raffi Bilek
- Jun 4, 2013
- 1 min
Pornography Addiction
If you or someone you know is struggling with this problem, your first stop should be the Guard Your Eyes website. Here is an article I...
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