Monday, November 25, 2013

Feel the Burn: Relationship Counseling Exercise

As you may have noticed by now, many of the tips I've posted here require a bit of effort on your part.  Rarely can you grow as a person without putting some emotional elbow grease into it. In this video, I'll explain how to channel the feelings of emotional strain and striving into something productive.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Pornography Addiction Revisited

A friend of mine and I were discussing my post on pornography addiction in the Orthodox community and weighing in on the prevalence of the problem in different communities - religious, non-religious, Jewish, Christian, etc.  He said something that I thought was most thought-provoking, and I am sharing it here for the good of the masses.  Would love to hear others' responses to this:
The non-religious are addicted to porn because it is easier to satisfy your desires without a connection to people. The religious are addicted to porn because it is impossible to satisfy your desires by connecting to people.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

The Royal "We"

Using "we" when you mean "you" is one great way to leave your partner feeling vaguely resentful and keep negative feelings brewing under the service. In this video I'll explain this a little more: